Anya is watching TV all the time. Somehow her lack of drive scares me. She is sleeping in, has 9 hrs of sleep daily. Is constantly bored, sad, worried. Completely absorbed in self pity, hates herself but doesn’t want to do anything to change it. Constantly finds excuses. chasing distractions in any form: TV, SM, day-dreaming, codependency. That’s why she is constantly needy, wants more attention, to spend more time together. afraid of effect it-unknowingly-has on me.