it always seems such a red flag that she is so clingy and needy when I'm busy. And that's big part of it. She is cooking so that we go to eat and so that later she has some leverage to "spend time with me" - however weird it sounds.
💫 btw when she is not.. - was it the reason why she broke up with me 5 years ago and ran away on this crazy trip? to find herself? - that’s should’ve been kinda huge red flag