22:46 π the thing with Anya guilttripping me is: I didn't do something wrong, so I won't feel guilty or scared or bad. It's her expectations, old wounds, traumas etc. - I won't take it on me.
βπ» β€οΈ my guess is that I got triggered after Anya became offended and began guilttripping me because I didn't want to go out - was acting passive-aggressive.